As the questions come, I find myself actually thinking out loud rather than reciting rehearsed answers. I share real stories, laugh a little, and admit when something was hard. They lean in, ask follow-ups, and I realize they're genuinely curious about me, not just checking boxes.
There's a rhythm to it. They tell me about the team, the culture, what they're really looking for, and I find myself picturing myself there. I ask questions that come naturally because I'm actually interested, not just trying to seem engaged.